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Undeliverable

Undeliverable

8/1/2013 Both daughters have been asked to be bridesmaids in their cousin’s wedding (dad’s side), which is a lovely honor. Their dad is responsible for getting them to another state for the nuptials—flight, hotel, and all that stuff. He hasn’t been a problem for me and we are amicable with each other, so I don’t mind when he texts me to get information about their e-mail addresses or phone numbers or dates they’re available or whatnot. I know they don’t always…

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Mom Is Still Clueless

Mom Is Still Clueless

7/25/2013 I have not seen my daughter since that last time when I realized how skinny she was. I seldom hear from her, and if I call, I don’t get a call back. I don’t know what’s going on with her, and I don’t get answers to my questions (you can’t if they don’t talk to you). She has sent nice text messages telling me how much she loves me and will make up all this lost time. She’ll even…

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Another New Daughter

Another New Daughter

7/2/2013 So very long since I’ve written about my daughter—or about anything really. I’ve been in a slump, feeling like I’ve failed somehow. I helped my daughter through the pregnancy thing, and she was super motivated to try school again. I fell for it. I paid for two classes, purchased the books, bought her a brand-new computer, paid for a subscription to Adobe Photoshop (which I can’t get out of), and gave her my undying support. In the third to…

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Wanna Meet Someone Broken Hearted? Hello.

Wanna Meet Someone Broken Hearted? Hello.

12/21/2012 After writing that last post and knowing I need to know what I don’t want to know, I searched for arrest records for my throwing-away-her-life daughter. I found her mugshot first. Since this is really new business for me, I first examined the picture to see if she looked remorseful. To my relief, she didn’t look rebellious, she looked really upset, even a little scared. I though she actually looked beautiful—too beautiful to be on a mugshot page with…

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I Must Learn to DETACH!

I Must Learn to DETACH!

12/2/2011 Sadly, life with my troubled teen has been dismal and miserable for the past few weeks. I’m a bundle of nerves, stressed to the point of physical illness, and spend my days grinding my teeth and feeling like I’m suffocating. I can’t say or do anything right; even my most innocuous comments, like “Have a good day,” are met with disdain and disgust. It’s like she turned on me all of a sudden. I’ve been trying to reflect on…

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Results from the 2010 National Survey on Drug Use and Health

Results from the 2010 National Survey on Drug Use and Health

9/12/2011 I particularly wanted to find out about my daughters’ age groups. The survey says: Young Adults Aged 18 to 25 In 2010, the rate of current illicit drug use was higher among young adults aged 18 to 25 (21.5 percent) than among youths aged 12 to 17 (10.1 percent) and adults aged 26 or older (6.6 percent). Among young adults, the rates were 18.5 percent for marijuana, 5.9 percent for nonmedical use of psychotherapeutic drugs, 2.0 percent for hallucinogens, and 1.5 percent for cocaine. In 2010,…

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Would You Lie for Your Child?

Would You Lie for Your Child?

6/24/2011 This is a great question. What do you think? Would you? Cindy Anthony’s Testimony: Would You Lie for Your Child? June 24, 2011 10:11 am by Jenna Hatfield, BlogHer Original Post Yesterday, Casey Anthony’s mom, Cindy, dropped a bombshell on the Caylee Anthony murder trial. She said — under oath — that she was the one who searched for chloroform on the family computer. The prosecution has always used this as their form a smoking gun to prove intent on…

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