Original Publish Date: April 11, 2011
Better than feeling like the prettiest girl at the ball is feeling like the best mom in the world! I had a splendid day with my daughter yesterday—one of our Sunday “dates.”
I honestly thought it was going to be a bust because she overslept for work and ended up being an hour late. I figured she’s call me and tell me that she was going to need a nap after work, which automatically derails any plans we might have. BUT, she said she worked it out with her boss and would stay an hour later to make up the time, and would be ready for our day.
She was, and she brought with her a good mood and a positive attitude. She didn’t smell like she’d been smoking in a tavern and she had a healthy appetite. I’m easy—meaning that she totally won me over, so I was willing to spend whatever on a nice lunch. We went to a semi-pricy restaurant that she chose (and I approved) and had a delicious meal. AND we had a great conversation about Nana, our relationship, me getting remarried, a number of things… and had a lot of laughs. She told me her feelings on a few things—something about a full belly and a rustic atmosphere, I guess. We talked about the move into our new home this month, and her plans for next year, which include college. I was thrilled to hear that she had been thinking about it and was excited to begin as soon as possible!
We listened to some teenager music in the car, danced for other drivers to see, held hands like we used to when she was a little tyke, and laughed some more at her goofiness. I just love when she cuts loose and can be silly. Then we ran into my mother while shopping and—wouldn’t you know it—Nana was inspired to buy her granddaughter an outfit! We all ended up at Nana’s house for some chocolate ice cream, and my daughter played with Nana’s makeup for a while before it was time for her to meet up with some friends.
She checked in with me and was home at a reasonable hour, giving me time to spend the evening with my mom. Once again, I feel hopeful that the worst of our teen problems are now behind us. It doesn’t mean that we’re done, or that there won’t be other very real issues to deal with, but it sure is nice to have a great day with your child and remember exactly why you do what you do.