Even though both children have cut me off, I do have to say that my older daughter is blossoming in her career and her future. She is adding credentials and skills to her CV, and is understanding life and what it means to make future plans. She had money in the bank, gets regular GYN checkups, raises two beautiful cats and 1,000 houseplants, has a beautifully curated apartment, and pays all her bills. She also takes care of her sister, who is always a beat behind and a dollar short, emotionally and financially.
I can’t take any credit for how cool and responsible she is, though I was a pretty good role model with a very good work ethic. I’ve never used drugs, alcohol, or even tobacco! I’ve also been in a relationship with my husband for 26 years, so I’m pretty darn stable and loyal. I’m not perfect, but I lay my head down on my pillow each night knowing I was the best person I knew how to be, and used all the hammers and screwdrivers in my toolbelt.
No matter what, I can’t deny the fact that my older daughter is pretty badass. I’m still proud of both my children’s accomplishments, great and small.